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Conscious Life Skills
 
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Connectedness (Relationship)
Connectedness is about developing a sense of community through compassion, cooperation acceptance belonging and sharing.

We usually view connectedness in the context of human relationships. We experience connectedness through our family of origin, our friendships, our pets, our intimate love relationships which may or may not include sexuality and our social responsibilities. Dependent upon what role we play, we may only select parts of our thinking feeling doing self to show to another.

Yet connectedness has a context wider than human relationships.

Connectedness is about relationship with all  forms of life and energy, including our relationship with our body and our mind, our significant others, our talents, animals, trees, water, insects, money and the environment. It includes both seen and unseen - the diving magpie in spring, the thoughts we hold unspoken, the rubbish we dump and recycle,  and the idea of god or universal provider.  To be alive is to be in  relationship, to be connected.

At different times and with varying urgency we are called upon to develop harmonize and integrate our thinking feeling and doing. The call to align our thinking feeling doing ask each to know who am I - self perception - to the point of acceptance and compassion, and then to expand that understanding outwards to all others.

We depend on our relationships with others for our security, self worth and happiness. When we do not get what we need from these important persons, then we may feel disappointment, hurt, injustice, fear, anger and even hate. And if they give to others what we want from them, then we also feel jealousy and perhaps revenge. These feelings can destroy our inner peace and our health and trouble our relationships with the significant people in our lives.

Conscious Life Skills offers acceptance and confidentiality through guided inquiry to enable you alone, or you and your partner, to investigate and understand that attraction and communication in your important relationships flow from who you are and how you live your life. What you give out tends to get reflected back to you by those around you.

Become your own best friend in building conscious relationships. Contact us to assist you in creating a healthier and happier sense of connectedness to the world in and around you.